Effective Communication with Young People

Communication is an important part of effectively addressing another person's drug use and the impact it is having. Effective communication is a two way process, which involves listening, not giving lectures or judging. A young person wants to know that they will be listened to and that you are open to hearing what they have to say. A young person who can discuss problems with a parent is less likely to use alcohol and other drugs to try and solve problems.

Talk
It is important to be able to talk to your children about everyday issues. Parents who don't discuss things like music, school or sport with their children will find it difficult to discuss an emotional issue like drug use.

Establish some agreements
It is useful to establish some agreements about acceptable behaviour in relation to alcohol and drugs. These can help protect your child from some of the risks of drug use. For example:
"I would hope you never drive if you've been drinking, or travel in a car with someone who has been drinking. I would be much happier if you stay over at a friend's house, take a taxi, or phone home so we can come and collect you".

Part of the agreement is that the parent will come without any fuss. All discussions should wait until the next day. Try to keep any commitments made.

Source: Common questions parents ask about young people (n.d) Retrieved November 11, 2005 , from http://druginfo.adf.org.au/article.asp?ContentID=common_questions_parents_ask_a#what